Angel and Human.

Rohit was walking five steps ahead of Sanjana.

Sanjana asked - ‘Why Mr.Handsome is striding fast?’

Sanjana noticed Rohit kicking away some sharp stones and throwing away the thorny sticks.

Rohit stopped and turned, ‘Just clearing the path…for the angel to walk!’

Sanjana blushed fully and went near Rohit.

‘Will Mr.Handsome be the protector of angel throughout the life?’ asked Sanjana.

‘Well,’ said Rohit, ‘if angel is okay to marry a human, then no problem!’

And they walked hand in hand happily everafter.

Oh I never thought it that way !!

Excuse, if a movie scene looks awkward between the life lessons narrated here. I had a “Oh, I never thought of it that way!“ moment while watching Dear Zindagi (even Alia Bhatt agreed).

Forgive for not remembering the exact lines, but Jehangir Khan, played by the charismatic Shah Rukh Khan, asks why do we need that “one special” relationship in life. Stirring my head, he points out we keep seeking a special relationship that satisfies us in every way. Rather, he says, why not have a special someone for coffee, another one to talk for hours, another one for sharing your days. You get the point, don't you? He winds up with the question “Why do we burden one relationship with everything we need in life?!”

That was a Wow moment for me. That seemed like a simple solution to many problems in life. A revelation. Is not it :P

Your view?

I care. I adore. I respect

Today suddenly someone asked me is their any alternative to "I love you"

I kept thinking .....

“And afterwards we drop into a quiet little place and have a drink or two

And then I go and spoil it all by saying something stupid like "I love you"

Frank Sinatra

There are so many ways to express love than saying” I Love you” not because it sounds stupid or melodramatic at times but because love is a beautiful expression to be limited to be expressed in just three words.

The day she got unwell,you didn't say a word but stayed with her for few hours to take care of her you said you care, without saying you care.

The day she is stressed out of work,you don't ask too much question but prepare a cup of coffee or tea. You say without saying that you adore her.

When she waits for you to have dinner with you even if it's late you serve her the first bite you say without saying that you respect her.

When you make her the meaning of your life you say without saying that she completesyou.

There are so many words that could be better than “ I love you”

However they all mean only when they are acted upon than just said.

I care ,I adore,I respect. 

And some other alternatives which I said to my someone special is :

• When I’m with you, I feel safe from the things that hurt me inside.
• Be my quote, I will be your story.
• You are my strength, please never let me feel weak.
• Don’t let me walk away.
• I choose you.And I’ll choose you,over and over and over. Without pause , in a heartbeat.I’ll keep choosing you.
• I didn’t plan it. But you are the best thing ever happened to me.
• Everybody has an addiction,mine is you.
• Good things in life are better with you.
• You are not my number 1 ,you are my only one.
• You stole my heart but I’ll let you keep it.
• Thank you for reminding me what butterflies feel like.
• You are my favorite place to go when mind searches for peace.
• And suddenly, all the love songs are about you.
• I look at you and see the rest of my life in front of my life.

And yes she made my reality better than dreams!!!!

Give it a shot !!

Don’t get so caught up in not knowing what you want to do. Society does a good job of convincing people our age that they need a plan and all kinds of goals by the time your 21 and frankly, that’s unrealistic bullshit. 
Don’t be afraid to change your major once or twice or even three times. 
Hell, don’t even be afraid to drop out, and completely wing it without any kind of a plan.
Instead be afraid of not chasing what you want. 
Be afraid of winding up stuck with a job or living somewhere you hate. 
Be afraid of settling for anything but your idea of perfect.
I believe that you’ve got one shot at your life and if you’re going to spend it chasing anything but what your heart desires then you can’t really call that living.

Remember you can't go back and do the things right but you can definitely give a shot about the things you regret in future.

Will anyone care after I die ?

The Caterpillar and Alice looked at each other for some time in silence: at last the Caterpillar took the hookah out of its mouth, and addressed her in a languid, sleepy voice.

`Who are YOU?' said the Caterpillar.

This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, `I--I hardly know, sir, just at present-- at least I know who I WAS when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.'

– Alice in Wonderland, Chapter 5

The question of mortality is something that has inspired fear and wonder since the human frontal lobe got big enough for us to start actually thinking about the matter. In the millennia since then, more possibilities have been offered than I could hope to catalog. Almost all of the answers fall into the category of there being no persuasive, reliably reproducible evidence to support them, but also no way to refute the claims for anyone who chooses to believe. Underpinning lots of metaphysical uncertainty about death, though, lies both a fair bit of physical certainty and an even more pressing philosophical dilemma: what is it that makes you you?

How can we be sure there is no Heaven, Hell, or Purgatory? Does anyone actually have scientific evidence against them? I don't think so. Nor, do we have scientific evidence that supports such beliefs. Can anyone doubt that in 100 millennia our rudimentary 2016 science will be no more relevant than cave-man drawings?

We already know that reality is not necessarily reality, because we all perceive everything differently. We can generalize what a groups sees and experiences, but we really can't be sure whether any of the things we know to be true actually are true. It could be that I am the only consciousness in the universe, and maybe I am making all this stuff up.

Given that my consciousness may have existed for trillions of years, I suppose anything could be possible.  Maybe I am The God of Myself, alone in a sea of vast nothingness, with only my thoughts propelling me a few hundred billion years deep into total insanity.

Sometimes I wonder, what would it be like, when I die?
People would sigh, cry, others would just stand by.
Some would lie, “Why did he have to go? He was such good a guy”.
I’d be laughing, and looking through their lies, from the sky.

Tears will be shed, I’m sure, by many of those,
“he was such a gem”, they all would propose.
despite the fact, when alive, respect in them, for me, never arose.
Funny enough, now they’d shower all their love, or should I say impose?

Some might be happy, or would they be? I don’t know.
For such hatred for me, no one did ever show.
Anyway, in my life, such people I’d always let go,
but one can never be sure of anything, is it not so?

Few of them would mourn deeply, their lives would go asunder,
for they’d be the ones who really loved me, up above, or down under.
Thinking of them, I realize bringing these thoughts to mind is a blunder,
but on some other days, drowned in melancholy, I sit, again, and I wonder….

At 21, I have gone through all sorts of opinions on what's real and what's not, and I have come to only one concrete truth. And that truth is, 'I don't know what I don't know', and that's that. 

Shame #FRAUDTERESA

It is really Saddening to see the twitter trend #FRAUDTERESA

Is this some joke???
She has helped poor and differently-abled people tremendo~usly during her life, and the work is being carried on by her disciples. A humble down to earth woman who came to India and offered her help all for free. We rarely did appreciate such an individual but when she is getting the honor she clearly deserves, it is wrong to deplore her.

Miracle or not...this wonder lady dared to touch lepers with her bare hands and give them food, clothing and shelter when the word itself was taboo. Not many of us know that at one point in time she was at loggerheads with the Vatican, because her own ideology of salvation, which was not accepted as per Vatican protocol. So what if she converted? So what if she found India as a destination where people can be easily obliged due to apathy? It's time to look inside.

I guess the reason for this upsetting trends is objection to her activities of conversion. I am not sure if she did it or not. All I know is that she was kind to strangers, which is something I would never have the courage to do. It takes a lot of courage to spend entire life serving humanity!

I don't endorse making anyone a godman or a godwoman.... but to take a dig at someone and to deprecate their noble deeds, in the off-chance that they may have had ulterior motives? Shame......!!!!!!

Regardless of why Saint Teresa served people, she helped real, living and breathing people who needed help, as opposed to the conservative fanatics who are calling out against her on the basis of abstract concepts like motives and morality.

What I personally believe is that your actions should translate into what you are. Deep down we are both moral and immoral.....It is hence your actions, that should define you.
Motives don't directly affect the world. You can be the nicest person who doesn't do shit to society.... !!!!!!!
Doing the right thing for the wrong reasons is far better than the alternative. The dying souls needed help and physical care. Ideas like secularism and morality didn't come to their help. So shut your face.
It is outrageous that this hashtag has even surfaced! Shame.

She didn't understand.....

 He wanted to cry, to cry inconsolably and loud,
 He just wanted to shout his lungs out,
 Every time he smiled his heart bled more,
 He had lost control over himself which had happened never before,
 Laughs were hurting more than all the scars combined he had,
 He had never imagined himself so weak and this in considerably sad,
 Silences had never hit him this hard,
 Staying alone haunted him which once he loved,
 The mask worn for years was never this vulnerable,
 He never thought himself getting so unstable…….


 The feelings he had for her were truest than ever,
 She was in his heart for eternity and forever,
 She could not understand it was impossible for him,
 To imagine a single day without her,
 The one thing that she never understood,
 That he was crazily in love with her,
 Perhaps he missed something somewhere,
 As the quantity was perhaps not enough for her,
 She always wanted him to leave her akone,
 And to let it go,
 He could never make her understand,
 She was his home, he would not find peace,
 Any damn place he would go,
 She was not a path,
 She was never for a season,
 She was his forever,
 She was his destination..

 But damn she didn’t understand……

Life is uncertain. We do many things to avoid the certainty of uncertainty in life. We plan for the future that might not come, we distract ourselves by purchasing material comfort-objects, we use alcohol and drugs to numb our feelings, and we latch onto others to avoid the deep feelings of isolation and loneliness we experience. The truth is, we are alone and we can die at any moment. The truth is bad things happen to good people all the time. You can sit there and think that it can’t or it won’t happen to you, but that’s a lie to help you sleep at night.

Good Night