For you my valentine forever :)

So here comes agian 14th february. The day of love as people call it. Well i go back into the glimpses of past. Yet another year passes by with some old memories. Whoever says time heals everything does not know the pain of clinging. I would like to share something about my best friend...

I always wished that i had the kind of best friend i could just text a code word to and she would know exactly how to respond, the friend who would say "let's just hand out this weekend" and i would want nothing but uninterrupted time with her; the friend who would hear when i am sick and shows up with a bowl of soup. the friend who includes me in everything; whispers secret to me that she tells to no one else and the one who just always seem to want to be with me the same amount of time that i want to be with her.

When i am feeling little nagging angst of lneliness- it's for her that i want. It's for the fantasy best friend that i now would be Thelma to Louise, Raj to Simran, The laughter to our joke and even the fork to spoon. she would be the finisher of my sentences, the reader of my mind and the affirmer of my heart. Our time together will be easy, safe and comfortable.

The only friend she is who can bring my anger down. Someone with whom i want to spend the whole day with and never regretted, with whom i can form a well understood, synchronised partnership above all differences. People stay jealous but friendship is above all jealousy and just jump over the dumb peoples brain. she understands me better than i ever knew myself. The perfect hug in the right time and the correct method to stop you from entering into a wrong path. Closer than your girlfriend she is, loves you more than your lover, cares for you almost as your mother. I hate to see her go, it pull out all that i had from me. No matter what happens , how stuff changes, circumstances alter, how many fights and arguments i had with her, we guys stick by because thats what friendship is and my bestfriend is worth it!!! I proudly admit today that i love my best friend and no one can betray this fact...
I admit that i had that kind of friend in my life but due to some unavoidable circumstances she is not with me any more and we can never be together aswell. we even stopped talking or rarely we talk.
But above all these , i miss her a lot and always wish that she could be back in my life

people may be thinking why i am writing about my best friend on valentines day. Well she was everything to me including my lover ;). unlucky i am coz i missed date with her this 14th feb...

           

Sometimes just a glimpse of you may suffice

             but today is not the day of that kind

            morning walks and activa rides

           are still safe in my hearts old mine

With a stranger i talked all night

reincarnating the past in a shady room

with a sranger i smiled 

to let it go in the darkest hour

some old pictures bring lots of memories tied together

though i am trying hard not to remember you

as u said u will feel guilty 

but i am unable to do so

please someone help me out

someone bring me out of this trauma

i want to live a happier life

with you by my side

at times i think that you were a treasure i won but didn't deserve...i still have to say that i am not lucky but blessed to have you...Can't sleep...i am thinking about you. May be i am dreaming. Anyway i can't tell...all i know is that you are all that is left on my mind. I know u can't come back and we can never be together but i just wish and pray for you to stay happy forever wherever you are and don't miss me much...

#AIB knockout and Indian mentality

Watched the #AIB knockout??? Yeah??? fine read on...

Guys there is no right or wrong!!!
Everything  depends on whether we believe in the choices we make...
All India Bakchod chose to make the "knockout roast videos" which was damn entertaining, bold , daring, valiant, and really progressive.
I chose to watch it and i loved the video, so did million others. But unfortunately this is India, where culture speaks, tradition echoes, where even joke is not taken as sportingly...
Well welcome to India
A country where homosexuals are fighting for their right to be accepted,
A country where terrorists and Anti Nationals are having a free run
A country where women and kids are still asked to behave and not where short clothes while rapists are ignored
Welcome to land of KAMASUTRA where sex education in school is still frowned upon

How can you dare to make a ROAST where each and every politicians are busy roasting the citizens on a daily basis...

#India #not #country #for #funny #men
#India #not #country #for #free #men

Many people responded to the video that their so called sentiments were hurt and their hypocritical morality sabotaged. Once again moronic religious radicals have it their way. The whole point of internet is freedom from such censorship restrictions. Don't think we as society will ever grow up.

Ya i agree some jokes were disrespectful. But the opening warning before the video made very clear that if you take offense, please don't watch. See i don't think anyone here is a fan of rough, abusive and offensive language,  so ya it kinda irked to listen so much of it in a single video but roast is all about this. The definition of roast according to dictionary "its a subject to laughter and ridicule, a form of public insult". I mean you can't enter a chinese restaurant and expect them to serve you dosa. It is supposed to be offensive. And overall no one was forced to watch it. #AIB didn't buy airtime on every single tv channel to broadcast it. Youtube videos does not autoplay in front of you but yet it has more than 8.5 million views. Far more importantly on youtube the people who liked the video outnumbered the people by ten times then who disliked it.

 I am sometimes at sixes and seven where our country is heading. The problem with most of us Indians is that we are such hypocrites. We prefer to laugh on dirty jokes, watch porn but publicly mentioning any of this shit would be a crime . I am not against onanism or saying onanism is a bad thing. After all its quite natural but when you can do this inside four walls of your room, you can search for sunny leone on internet, read adult jokes and give a good laugh, then whats the problem in speaking in public.

We can censor, ban, destroy, kill and possibly do anything as long as we fit in the word #CULTURE and #TRADITION in there somewhere!!! Also government, dirty politics, rapes, female foeticides, illiteracy, unemployment,  and terrorism are probably graver issues than banning a youtube video i guess.

Grow up Indians...You dont need to band anything just because it does not appeal to your sensibilities. These are not videos inciting people to commit crime. However stupid they may be.
Don't you think that we need to focus on more paramount and relevant issues...
Yes to some extent even i agree that some jokes were really offensive. But they did all these for a noble cause and i respect #AIB for this. Moreover the people who have been roasted they themselves did not mind it, then who the hell are you all to hate it and no where in the Indian Constitution it says that roasting is not a part of indian culture or cannot be a part of indian culture....
Finally quoting the famous taylor swift "HATERS GONNA HATE.... HATE.... HATE


Let me end it here with a joke...

A hindu, a muslim and a christian enter a bar...

Unfortunately we can't let you in on rest of the joke. Its against our Indian culture.
Those who wanna have good laugh, ping me......