Poets, authors, artists, philosophers, scientists and anthropologists have tried to define love for centuries. Love is one of the few subjects that has troubled, intrigued and fascinated everyone.
Lisa Hoffman put it beautifully "Love is like pi natural, irrational and very important."
Bob Marley said : "Only once in your life, I truly believe you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you have never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments that life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are."
Well for me, lets start off with what love isn't.
What Is Love? It Definitely Isn't...
So what true love is:
Love is ecstasy and agony, freedom and imprisonment, belonging and loneliness. Love is what holds you together when life tears you apart. Love is amongst the few things in the world that makes life worth living. It is one of the most strongest emotion that a human being is capable of feeling. Love is when other person's happiness, other person's dreams, other person's aspirations, other person's problems become your own. There is no separation between you and the other person. Love is when you see someone's face and instantly know what they are feeling. There is this telepathic connection that binds all the people that are in love. Love is the foundation of any happy relationship.
It seems to be only rational thing left in the universe. True love is attachment without the need of possession. Love is that special feeling in your gut, love is when you can feel your own heart beating on the sight of your lover. Love is when you spend all you time thinking about that person. Love is when you will travel all over the globe just to get a glimpse of the person you love. Love is when you stare at your smartphone all day long hoping that the person that you love will send a message that says that the person is doing okay. True love is always selfless and does not demand reciprocation from the other person.
Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that that they are a part of your life. Fall in love and experience it.....
Lisa Hoffman put it beautifully "Love is like pi natural, irrational and very important."
Bob Marley said : "Only once in your life, I truly believe you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you have never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments that life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are."
Well for me, lets start off with what love isn't.
What Is Love? It Definitely Isn't...
- Manipulation. "If you loved me, then you would..." isn't love, but rather infatuation.
- Compromising who you are. If someone asks you to do or say something that isn't in your nature, that isn't true love. Although love does involve compromises between partners, someone who is in love with you will never ask you to change who you are in order to be loved.
- Violent. Passions can definitely become inflamed with someone you love, but a relationship with physical or emotional violence isn't true love.
- Just lust. Yes, chemistry and physical attraction are important, but true love also includes commitment, trust and respect.
So what true love is:
- true love is attached
- true love is caring
- true love is commitment
- true love is attractive
- true love is intimate
- true love is pure ecstasy
Love is ecstasy and agony, freedom and imprisonment, belonging and loneliness. Love is what holds you together when life tears you apart. Love is amongst the few things in the world that makes life worth living. It is one of the most strongest emotion that a human being is capable of feeling. Love is when other person's happiness, other person's dreams, other person's aspirations, other person's problems become your own. There is no separation between you and the other person. Love is when you see someone's face and instantly know what they are feeling. There is this telepathic connection that binds all the people that are in love. Love is the foundation of any happy relationship.
- Love is walking hand in hands.
- Love is messing up someone's hair.
- Love is being happy knowing that she is happy.
- Love is tickling.
- Love is hating to say goodbye.
- Love is passing notes back and forth in school.
It seems to be only rational thing left in the universe. True love is attachment without the need of possession. Love is that special feeling in your gut, love is when you can feel your own heart beating on the sight of your lover. Love is when you spend all you time thinking about that person. Love is when you will travel all over the globe just to get a glimpse of the person you love. Love is when you stare at your smartphone all day long hoping that the person that you love will send a message that says that the person is doing okay. True love is always selfless and does not demand reciprocation from the other person.
Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that that they are a part of your life. Fall in love and experience it.....
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